Something on your mind and you need to get it off? Whether you're pissed off and need to rant, or just want to share an interesting thought, I want to hear from you! Email me at realtalk4u2011@yahoo.com Be sure to indicate rant or thought in the subject line. Any and all contact information will remain anonymous unless you include it in your content. Also drop by my other site Real Talk Q&A with Nikki G for some thought provoking Q&A



Friday, September 23, 2011

MALE BASHING

All men are dogs? really???  I hate when women say that!  Let's just say that all the men YOU come across are dogs, which would still probably be an untrue statement.  I know for a fact that there are good stand up men out here.  If you haven't come across one, then maybe it's you that's the problem.  Maybe you're looking in the wrong places, or it could be that something about you is attracting dog ass men.  If you're going into realationships with the "all men are dogs" mentality, then that's exactly what you're going to get because you don't expect anything better.  Some women have unrealistic expectations set for men which sets them up for inevitable disappointment.  Keep in mind also that there are some good people out here who sometimes make bad decisions.  Just because your father, husband or boyfriend isn't and/or wasn't shit, don't take it out on the whole male species!  There are ways of filtering out the good ones from the bad ones, the real from the bullshit.  Actually you probably have passed up a lot of good men because you were too busy looking for the wrong man.  Don't get me wrong I know that there are some truly triflin guys out here, but damn ladies! They're not all bad, all the time. 

SN: and PAH LEASE stop hating on your friends man just because yours ain't shit.  Jealousy is not a good look.  Instead of trying to create doubt in her mind about her relationship because you're unhappy,  you need to be trying to ask her for some tips on how to get a good man and keep him! 

No comments:

Post a Comment